To date or not to date? That is the question.

So I have been thinking a lot about relationships lately. Before I left to explore India a year ago, I decided that I wanted to take a LONG break from even thinking about being in a relationship. I decided I wanted to work on my relationship with myself. Well, it has been a glorious year.

For me personally, life is a lot easier single. I only have to worry about myself. And, I love alone time. Being an artist, I need to be solo to create whether I am writing a book or making music. And, It is a beautiful feeling to fall in love with yourself.

But now my year is up. What do I want? Would I be open to a romantic partnership? I am going to be brutally honest here. When I think about what I miss most about from being in a relationship it is physical touch. I don’t just mean sex, though I miss that too. I miss cuddling… Having someone to hold hands with… Someone to kiss in the moonlight… Someone to laugh with and so many other things.

The problem though, is that physical touch is the only thing I miss at this stage in my life. You see, I have so many dreams. I am finishing a book, writing music, teaching singing, swimming, and yoga. I suppose all of my passions are more of a priority in my life than finding someone to share this life with. Who knows, I could meet someone tomorrow and fall desperately in Love. I wouldn’t turn my back on it. But I am also not going to search for it. I am happy right now. So unless some magical, vegan, yogi unicorn crosses my path, I am going to enjoy every second of my healthy and happy single life!

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